Just remember: An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away! It's like a drug addiction you never get rid of but which also does you no harm; in fact, the contrary is true. Orgasms are healthy. Good for your body and your soul, and fun to boot. It's the ultimate goal of sexual pleasure, but still, orgasms are quite a mystery, even today. It's strange how something so desirable is, scientifically-speaking, still virgin territory. But even though an orgasm is harder to achieve with your partner than on your own through masturbation, it doesn't spoil the joy.